As I swallowed all the depictions of myself. As self-ish, not responsible and also not priortizing family.
But, in this case...the root family is not my siblings concern.
As family emerge, there is a place where somebody will take all the dirty laundry. and that would be me.
Single, a bit off the benchmark from the actual period you need to get married...So, here I am standing.
In the eyes of the family, we look like very pathetic. why we have no husband. but do u know how hard we live in this male domination world?
I felt bit disrespect as I tried to please all the members in this family. But it was not good enough. I was devastated. And this is potray in front of kids which can totally see what is happening between the adults.
The art of parenting it is not count between you and husband and also your kids. You have to get your kids to learnt there is a load of people involved in one family. We called family tree for a purpose. Not because it huge.
A tree, consist of trunk, branches, pretty leaves and fallen leaves. A tree will be the best place for you to sit. In the most season, it give you the best & most complete figure to describe why we need a family tree.
The trunk, should be define as base of tree structure. Strong, tough and multi-purpose. You can feel comfortness, cozy and warmth as you rely your body to the trunk.
The leaves, protect from bright light and cover from heavy rain. And the fallen leaves as good as beautiful memory.
Sorry if my depiction is not good, but i think in my family we don't have any tree. But, I really hope this won't lasts.
Morale of the story: Take care of your parents, teach your kids respect to all parties involved in the family tree.If a parent can't show the good example pls don't expect good ending for you guys.
But one thing for sure. I have stopped whining about family and now I have take responsibility as head in this house. I took charged everything.
I learnt from a lady who have everything in her hand. Every worst case scenario you could ever imagine.
What makes me amazed about her, how she make the worst to become worthy experience..
Just pray that all negatives thought totally off from your mind as this is not bring any goods. Stop whining and start winning.
;)
Friday, December 16, 2011
Thursday, December 15, 2011
Parents & Parenting (Part 1)
I'm a bit frank when talking about my surroundings. My Karma is also quite huge because my words which not so-wisdom-but-full-of-critics, but I always stick to the Hadith of PBUH Muhammad, "Tell the truth, even it was the most bitter"...
My family : Father + Mother, 3 Sisters & a brother. My father passed away for almost 3 years. My life as the youngest in the family was not a bed of roses, bitter & hard.
As most of my siblings have their own family, in this family leaving me & my sister to take care our old mum. At this age, I want to have more achievement in this life. But, my mum become my priority. True enough on what people out there said about taking care of old folks, "Parents can always take care tons of Kids, but in return, you never know either the same kids can pay back".
The journey began as my parents got married, and later accompanied by my eldest and the rest we developed to become pretty huge family. We used to spend our times together. But that was really and old, dust story.
As time emerge, my sister (which only one tier above me) got married. We celebrated with the huge wedding reception and later my brother got married and my second elder sister. Small kids back in the family. True enough, the more the merrier.
Life is not easy. True. My family boat was sinking a bit here and there. Financial was really the BIGGEST issue. This life continue. All the colour smeared. Darker & truly ugly. The blame game is being well played by everybody.
In the middle of the crossroad, my dad passed away. Leaving my mom all alone in this life. Then here me...standing and picking up all the responsible.
After my dad left us, I was here to do almost everything without the other sibling realize. They always have in their minds that single ladies like me have got nothing better to do in this life except spulrge.
But what else left in our life? Do they ever know what we have been thru?
Talk to you later, baby...
My family : Father + Mother, 3 Sisters & a brother. My father passed away for almost 3 years. My life as the youngest in the family was not a bed of roses, bitter & hard.
As most of my siblings have their own family, in this family leaving me & my sister to take care our old mum. At this age, I want to have more achievement in this life. But, my mum become my priority. True enough on what people out there said about taking care of old folks, "Parents can always take care tons of Kids, but in return, you never know either the same kids can pay back".
The journey began as my parents got married, and later accompanied by my eldest and the rest we developed to become pretty huge family. We used to spend our times together. But that was really and old, dust story.
As time emerge, my sister (which only one tier above me) got married. We celebrated with the huge wedding reception and later my brother got married and my second elder sister. Small kids back in the family. True enough, the more the merrier.
Life is not easy. True. My family boat was sinking a bit here and there. Financial was really the BIGGEST issue. This life continue. All the colour smeared. Darker & truly ugly. The blame game is being well played by everybody.
In the middle of the crossroad, my dad passed away. Leaving my mom all alone in this life. Then here me...standing and picking up all the responsible.
After my dad left us, I was here to do almost everything without the other sibling realize. They always have in their minds that single ladies like me have got nothing better to do in this life except spulrge.
But what else left in our life? Do they ever know what we have been thru?
Talk to you later, baby...
Hmmm...
One of the thing i like about myself is i love theme party... i'll share some pics of myself wearing costumes... in my workplace we used to have many functions which we need to use our creativity and have fun all the way!
Enjoice!
Enjoice!
Hola!
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Fresh start for me. December 2011.
As an introduction to this public blog, I want to share a bit of my life. My life as person, a girl, a grown up women and also future to be wife to somebody out there. :P
I always expect something big in life, looking for WOW factor in life just like everyone want. As my blog title, I am self claimed diva. A diva which always to get the best out everything. My personal perception of diva would be : getting all the attention before you know it...heheheh....
Next year, 2012. I will be 30. Thirty years old. OLD.
OLD. Let's see what I want to achieve in the next 5 years. My target in life just to get more richer. Richer in sense financial stability, emotional stability, more courtship and more discipline.
Few things running in my small mind, but at the time being...I really need to have a point of balance in this tiny life.
I will be sharing more stories why I am a self proclaimed diva :)
Until then, nite, nite
Fresh start for me. December 2011.
As an introduction to this public blog, I want to share a bit of my life. My life as person, a girl, a grown up women and also future to be wife to somebody out there. :P
I always expect something big in life, looking for WOW factor in life just like everyone want. As my blog title, I am self claimed diva. A diva which always to get the best out everything. My personal perception of diva would be : getting all the attention before you know it...heheheh....
Next year, 2012. I will be 30. Thirty years old. OLD.
OLD. Let's see what I want to achieve in the next 5 years. My target in life just to get more richer. Richer in sense financial stability, emotional stability, more courtship and more discipline.
Few things running in my small mind, but at the time being...I really need to have a point of balance in this tiny life.
I will be sharing more stories why I am a self proclaimed diva :)
Until then, nite, nite
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