As I swallowed all the depictions of myself. As self-ish, not responsible and also not priortizing family.
But, in this case...the root family is not my siblings concern.
As family emerge, there is a place where somebody will take all the dirty laundry. and that would be me.
Single, a bit off the benchmark from the actual period you need to get married...So, here I am standing.
In the eyes of the family, we look like very pathetic. why we have no husband. but do u know how hard we live in this male domination world?
I felt bit disrespect as I tried to please all the members in this family. But it was not good enough. I was devastated. And this is potray in front of kids which can totally see what is happening between the adults.
The art of parenting it is not count between you and husband and also your kids. You have to get your kids to learnt there is a load of people involved in one family. We called family tree for a purpose. Not because it huge.
A tree, consist of trunk, branches, pretty leaves and fallen leaves. A tree will be the best place for you to sit. In the most season, it give you the best & most complete figure to describe why we need a family tree.
The trunk, should be define as base of tree structure. Strong, tough and multi-purpose. You can feel comfortness, cozy and warmth as you rely your body to the trunk.
The leaves, protect from bright light and cover from heavy rain. And the fallen leaves as good as beautiful memory.
Sorry if my depiction is not good, but i think in my family we don't have any tree. But, I really hope this won't lasts.
Morale of the story: Take care of your parents, teach your kids respect to all parties involved in the family tree.If a parent can't show the good example pls don't expect good ending for you guys.
But one thing for sure. I have stopped whining about family and now I have take responsibility as head in this house. I took charged everything.
I learnt from a lady who have everything in her hand. Every worst case scenario you could ever imagine.
What makes me amazed about her, how she make the worst to become worthy experience..
Just pray that all negatives thought totally off from your mind as this is not bring any goods. Stop whining and start winning.
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